I have learned….. never…. ever…. to trust a man until he puts a title on something… no matter what he says… no matter what he does…. never ever trust a man until he shows you what you are worth. Until that you are allowing yourself to be second best to anything. You have no say so in anything and your feelings don’t matter because the two of you are NOT together.! im so very frustrated, that Im at the point where I just do not care anymore. I am not going to fight anymore, if I am tired of getting in the ring and not having someone to fight with.
I was talking to one of my male friends’ today about relationships and I’ve determined that men are not emotionally honest with women because they think the relationship would move to a friend zone state and love would no longer be an option. Let me tell you all something, we (as females) prefer a HONEST man. …. So to keep from being PUT into the Friend zone….honesty is the best policy! I believe the purpose of men being emotionally honest shouldn’t be just to satisfy us women, but also to live in honor as a man. A man who shares his emotional truth is simply being honest. We may not like hearing how u feel about us or our relationship, but we will know the truth, and we can work with that. A man who speaks from his heart is sharing his absolute truth, and deserves respect. Of course it works both ways lol.
Another thing that has been on my mind, why do men in general not know the answer to things? When you ask them a simple yes or no question they want to go around the bush, which later leads to lies…which leads to us getting upset…which leads to arguments….etc…and then at the end, the man says its Our fault because we asked the question. ….NOOOOO its your fault because u just couldn’t be upfront and honest! if we ask a question about our relationship… ansWer it we can handle our own feelings! GOODNESS!!!!!
Sorry just wanted to vent for a moment..i hate liars…, thought what better way to vent than to write.